I've been married 3 years.

I mentioned last week that we went to ATL for the weekend to celebrate our anniversary. I love Rachel more then I could have ever imagined. 

This pastor would tell you that he loved his life more then he could have imagined. It didn't stop him from having an affair with his secretary last week. 

Saw a quote the other day that was priceless "“When you watch “Jon & Kate” and say, “That could never happen to me” the devil does the robot.” 

There is even now a pro-cheating movement that is happening on the internet. Check out this article. 

I write all this to say if you think you are immune to marriage problems, you are wrong. 

Stupid questions are better then Stupid mistakes. If you think you have an improper relationship with someone of the opposite sex ask somebody around you if they think so as well? Ask your husband/wife? The worst that can happen is they say no. Odds are though that if you think the relationship is inappropriate, it is. 

You are responsible for your marriage. 

Galatians 5:16 says: So I say, live by the spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature. Accountability is key, make sure you have it.